ENERGY

For women who are done auditioning for love, and are ready to be deeply desired.

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For self-aware, ambitious women who are ready to stop begging to be chosen and are ready to be desired.

I'm not going to BS you with any scam social media advice. In this workshop, you will learn from a registered Counsellor & Life Coach how to..

 stop monitoring yourself and start feeling at home in your body

regulate your nervous system so connection feels safe, not effortful

release the urge to perform, impress, or manage how you’re perceived

feel grounded and self-led instead of anxious and hyper-vigilant

soften the overthinking around texts, conversations, and reactions

experience desire and attraction as a natural by-product of safety, not strategy

embody a calm, magnetic presence, without masks, games, or self-abandonment

This isn’t about playing hard to get..It’s about feeling safe enough to stop trying.

From women just like you...

About Clarissa 

 

Welcome, I’m Clarissa..


I’m a hopeless romantic, a rom-com and pasta-night lover, and a true ride-or-die “doing it for the girls” kind of woman.


More importantly, I’m a Counsellor and Trauma Informed Life Coach specialising in romantic relationships,  and I work with women like you every single day.

If you’ve ever found yourself in a panicked state that your partner is going to leave you… you’re in exactly the right place.

I see how exhausting it is to live in that constant state of alert.


To want closeness, but feel on edge the moment you have it.


To crave vulnerability, yet hold parts of yourself back because it feels safer.

I support women daily who feel stuck between wanting love deeply and fearing it just as much.

Women who are self-aware, capable, and longing for connection,  but whose nervous systems don’t yet feel safe enough to relax into it.

This work isn’t about fixing you. It’s about helping you understand what your anxiety is protecting, and how to soften it without losing your depth.

I’m so honoured to hold this space and to walk alongside you in it. I can’t wait to share this workshop with you x

 

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